当你不再为博取他人认可而活,你便走向成熟与成长【TED演讲|成长第九辑】

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1.Angela Lee Duckworth 安吉拉・李・杜克沃斯

演讲:Grit: The power of passion and perseverance 《毅力:激情与坚持的力量》

English: Grit is passion and perseverance for very long‑term goals. Grit is sticking with your future, day in, day out, not just for the week, not just for the month, but for years. It is living life like it is a marathon, not a sprint. Talent does not make you gritty. Your ability can grow through consistent hard work.

中文:毅力,是对长期目标怀揣激情与坚持不懈。毅力就是日复一日坚守你的未来,不是一周,不是一个月,而是数年之久。把人生当作马拉松,而非百米冲刺。天赋并不能带来毅力,你的能力可以通过持续努力不断成长。

当你不再为博取他人认可而活,你便走向成熟与成长【TED演讲|成长第九辑】

2.Carol Dweck 卡罗尔・德韦克

演讲:The power of believing that you can improve 《相信自己可以进步的力量》

English: Why waste time proving over and over how great you are, when you could be getting better? Why hide deficiencies instead of overcoming them? The passion for stretching yourself and sticking to it, even when it is not going well, is the hallmark of the growth mindset. This is the mindset that allows people to thrive during some of the most challenging times in their lives.

中文:明明可以不断进步,为何要反复去证明自己有多优秀?为何要掩饰不足,而不是战胜它们?不断拓展自我、即便处境不顺也绝不放弃的热忱,正是成长型思维的标志。拥有这种思维,人们才能在人生最艰难的阶段依然蓬勃成长。

3.Meg Jay 梅格・杰伊

演讲:Why 30 is not the new 20 《20 岁光阴不再来》

English: Our personalities change more in our twenties than at any other time of life. The brain finishes its last major period of growth in your twenties to prepare for adulthood. This is your chance to actively shape who you will become. Do not let your twenties slip away waiting for something big to happen. Small, intentional choices build your future self.

中文:人的性格在二十多岁时的变化,超过人生其他任何阶段。大脑会在二十多岁完成最后一轮重要发育,为成年做好准备。这是你主动塑造自我的机会。不要坐等大事降临,白白浪费二十多岁的时光。那些有意识的微小选择,造就未来的你。

4.Amy Purdy 艾米・珀迪

演讲:Living beyond limits 《超越极限地生活》

English: We can view our obstacles as gifts. Limitations do not have to define us. They can push our imagination to seek new possibilities. Growth often arrives not when everything goes smoothly, but when life breaks apart and we are forced to rebuild ourselves in new ways.

中文:我们可以把障碍视作馈赠。局限不能定义我们,反而可以激发想象力,去寻找全新的可能性。成长往往不是发生在万事顺遂之时,而是生活破碎之后,我们被迫以全新方式重建自我的时刻。

5.Eduardo Briceño 爱德华多・布里塞尼奥

演讲:How to get better at the things you care about 《如何精进你在乎的事》

English: There are two important zones in our lives: the performance zone and the learning zone. The performance zone lets us execute what we already know. The learning zone is where real growth occurs. In the learning zone, we expect mistakes, focus on what we have not mastered yet, and aim for improvement rather than perfect results.

中文:人生存在两个重要区域:表现区与学习区。在表现区,我们发挥已掌握的能力;真正的成长发生在学习区。身处学习区,我们接纳犯错,专注尚未掌握的部分,追求进步,而非完美的结果。

6.Caroline McHugh 卡罗琳・麦克休 (TEDx)

演讲:The art of being yourself 《做自己的艺术》

English: Maturity and growth come when you stop living for other people’s approval. You do not have to shrink yourself to make others feel comfortable. Knowing who you are means accepting both your strengths and your flaws. Your journey of self‑discovery never truly ends.

中文:当你不再为博取他人认可而活,你便走向成熟与成长。不必刻意收敛自我,去迎合别人。认清自己,意味着接纳自身的优点与缺陷。自我探索的旅程永远不会真正结束。

7.Bill Eckstrom 比尔・埃克斯特罗姆

演讲:Why comfort will ruin your life 《舒适为何会毁掉你的人生》

English: Growth only exists outside your comfort zone. Comfort feels safe, but it stops your development. Pain and discomfort are not enemies of progress. They are signals telling you that you are stretching, learning and evolving. If you want to change, you have to welcome some level of discomfort.

中文:成长只存在于舒适区之外。舒适看似安全,却会停滞你的发展。痛苦与不适并非进步的敌人,它们是信号,代表你正在拓展边界、学习与蜕变。想要改变,就要主动接纳一定程度的不适感。

8.Ishita Katyal 伊希塔・卡蒂亚尔 (TEDx)

演讲:Why you don’t have to wait till you grow up 《不必等到长大以后》

English: Growth does not have to be delayed for some future date. You do not need to reach a certain age before you can create value or chase meaningful goals. Age is just a number. Real growth happens in the present moment, through small actions you choose to take right now.

中文:成长不必推迟到遥远的未来。不必等到某个年龄,才去创造价值、追寻有意义的目标。年龄只是一个数字。真正的成长发生在当下,源于你此刻选择做出的每一个微小行动。

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